I can’t believe we are reaching the end of another year...where does the time go? In the story of our family, this year has been a year of chapters closing and new ones opening. It’s no secret that I would like to put a bookmark on the part of our story when the kids grow up but since that is not possible I have been trying to enjoy each page as it turns to a new one.
This Spring, the chapter closed on one of Kiandra’s favourite parts of high school: musical season. Endless hours of rehearsal, cast bonding, and being on stage have been highlights for Kiandra. She didn't expect to be on the theatre stage again after high school but was called to fill in at the last minute for a show in the Fringe Festival this summer. She performed in 9 shows in 11 days and it was a great experience. Her positive musical experiences on the stage may have been the inspiration for Kaden when he auditioned for the first ever middle school musical at his school and was cast as “Charlie Brown” in “You’re a Good Man, Charlie Brown”. I think the production was more work than Kaden initially anticipated so this new chapter of Kaden’s musical experience might be a really short one... beginning and ending this year! Kezia closed (for now!) her on stage musical chapter as well this year as she decided to step back from the acting part of musical to assume a role back stage helping with crew. We will see if Kezia decides to rejoin the cast for her last high school musical next year or if she will stay with crew for her final musical experience.
Spring sports held an unexpected new beginning as Kaden decided to give up flag football, the sport he has played for the last 3 years, to join a ball hockey league. He loved the new challenge and I have a feeling next year that he will continue. With ball hockey in the Spring and ice hockey in the Fall and Winter, Kaden plays hockey year round now. Kezia continues to play soccer (indoor and outdoor) with the same group of girls and same coach that she’s had for many years. It has been so awesome to watch these girls develop in their skills and also in their friendship with each other. I am so happy for this ongoing chapter in Kezia's life.
June was really emotional for me as two really big chapters closed. Kiandra graduated from high school and Kaden had his middle school farewell from Grade 8 and finished his final year at the school where I teach. I kept thinking how fast these two chapters arrived. A few days later a new big chapter opened as Kezia started a summer babysitting job and then got her driver’s license to get to and from the job with the vehicle that the family provided. Kezia took on a few extra days of babysitting for her cousins on her days off and experienced her first summer of working full time hours. Kaden began a new chapter at our church being a Leader-In-Training for Adventurer’s Day camp and I think we were all surprised at how much he enjoyed it.
At the end of July we added some travel maps to our story as we took a long family road trip with stops in Chicago, Pennsylvania, Washington, New York, Niagara Falls, and Toronto. We traveled through thirteen states and two provinces and really enjoyed our trip. A few weeks later, Kiandra started working as a host at Smitty’s and so Conrad and I are especially thankful for the time we spent together as it will become increasingly difficult for us to have that much time all together. (Especially since Kezia started working at Smitty’s last week as well!)
In August, another significant chapter closed when we said good-bye to our cat Goliath. He had been a part of our family for the last 7 years but medical issues prompted us to put him down. He was terribly missed and it was only a few days until we added a new kitten named Princeton to our family. (Note to self: do not visit Petland when you are grieving the loss of your cat because there are plenty of new kittens ready and waiting to tempt you! True. Story.)
August was also a new chapter in vehicles as Conrad finally decided what he was going to purchase after months of research. He gave up driving the 2004 Safari van and is now the proud owner of a 2015 Honda Civic. It has many of the features that his van had been lacking such as better gas mileage and heat! August also brought the end of another chapter for Kiandra when she got her braces off. Even though she had really hoped to have them removed in time for grad, she was thrilled to finally have them off. Kezia is hoping to close the chapter on her mouth gear soon. She has worn some kind of retainer or braces for the last 6 years. Kaden joined the braces club in October. It's been an expensive chapter!
September held a whole new set of new beginnings. Kaden started high school at a school close to where I teach instead of the high school where all of the rest of us have gone. His decision has been a great one and his experience so far has confirmed this again and again. We also entered a new high school experience as Kaden made the volleyball team and had daily games and/or practices after school. I now had to wait at school for him to finish instead of the other way around when he always used to wait for me! Kezia started Grade 11 and has a bit of a lighter schedule this semester with a spare at the end of the day. She’s been enjoying coming home early, especially on Thursdays when she gets to hang with Conrad on his days off. Kiandra started taking three courses at the University of Manitoba. She found them overwhelming and is considering her options for the next semester. In September, Kiandra and her friend Kara started a new chapter at our church when they transitioned from youth group attenders to youth group leaders. They are small group leaders for Junior High girls and have been loving the experience of working together and planning activities for a great group of girls.
With all the chapters that have closed and opened, Conrad and I have enjoyed the ongoing predictability of our story. This year we celebrated 19 years of marriage. Conrad continues to work at the same appliance store. I started my 7th year of teaching Grade 1. We continue to learn new things as landlords but the lessons with our latest set of tenants has been less stressful than our first set. Conrad continues to play ball hockey once a week. He did have knee surgery in February that benched him for a few months but he has been playing regularly since it started up again in Fall.
Over this last year this verse has stood out for me from 1 Samuel 12:16:
Now then, stand still and see this great thing the Lord is about to do before your eyes!
As I reflect on the chapters that we have experienced in 2015 I know that God is working in all the things drawing to a close or new things that are just beginning. Our prayer for you and your family for 2016 is that you will feel God's hand leading you through whatever chapter you are in right now.
Merry Christmas from our family